Valid points regarding the Shock-Doc. The truth of the matter for me is..  "muscle dysmorphia" is not a mental illness. For the right person,It's a gift.

Why would anyone need a ' pick-up" kit . Sounds silly .  Save your money  .
 Having an interest in someone is the  easiest way to win them over.
 And when I say " interest" I mean having an interest in the person as well as the physique.

ant1937 darlin you're to cool for school!

looks staged, just another  "Shmoe" fantasy scenario .  3 stars for the effort though

Personally I think most bodybuilders who want to invest in a solo site should just do " content on demand'.. similar to what Builtmore.com presents . No monthly membership fee. Just offer your individual videos or webcam for a small fee. Most of these FBB sites are still doing  the " buffet" style content, IE: pay one fee and eat all you want. To be honest, how many Fans actually return to the " Buffet" when they're full, not many. However if you offer your  entre "a la cart"  you can successfully  keep everyone hungry, returning to your site for updates and wanting more. Times are a changing and we should all take note and step up to the changes.

I think when meeting an athlete or person you idolize, the experience can temporarily  make anyone feel small. However I'm sure the negative  feelings can quickly dissipate if your idol is open enough to sense your insecurities and help you feel relaxed.