I was 6' 195 in fairly shape and could bench 220. She was 6'1 175 and training to go to the olympic trials for rowing, so she was very strong, 6pack and in perfect shape. After a few dates during a discussion she asked me that most guys she has dated are intimidated by her, why wasn't I? I couldn't really answer for the other guys she dated. She was obviously the biggest and strongest girl I ever dated.

I don't think I was intimidated by her and she didn't think I was. What I told her was I didn't understand what there was to be intimidated about. We were dating and friends. She wasn't going to beat me up and we weren't going to fight. I wasn't a rower so there wasn't any competition. Maybe there is more to this I don't know. Any insight would is appriciated.