Ah, well, you see, that sort of depends on the guy.

I will confess that I'm a geek. Love being one  But, when I was at school I was fairly bad around girls. There are probably more reasons then me being a geek, e.g., it was an all boys school until 6th Form/College when my school went co-ed.

Not to say I'm making a sweeping statement, I like to think I'm better now, and can prove it with a Facebook or IM contact list, but then theres still the subject of the muscular chick.

I have before considered that I might be mildly intimidated, my track record with actually dating or whatever is not great, so it's probably more me feeling insecure about me being mildly out of shape since I got to Uni and then pining over someone who has put the effort in and will look down on me for not etc etc.

Having said that, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years, and she's a dancer with a nice (i.e., toned) physique, but she's not bigger then me so maybe I'm not talking bull?

Either way, I still think that I might feel intimidated by an FBB. A woman named Marina Cornwall is a Personal trainer at my gym, she won a Natural FBB competition a few years back I think, and I'm a bit intimidated to go up and speak to her. I'd feel ashamed at the state of my 'abs' compared to hers...

Well that makes more sense than it doesn't.

P.S budoka... geeks can be very sexy :p

I have a slightly small (read: tight) Street Fighter II t-shirt that proves that theory correct 

Who did you go out with who was 6'8"!!!?  I'd absolutely enjoy every nano-second I'd spend with her.  Granted I did enjoy every nano-second I spent with the taller and more muscular women I've dated!