I agree, I'd say Mimi's advice is good across a broad spectrum of topics. Fetishes have a tendency to be deep rooted and I often think that people who go out with someone who won't acknowledge them... often build up resentment toward them - that's just me though.

I'm not so sure I'd want to go with the very open on the first date approach.  I'm a very private kind of guy and only like to open up to people when I know I can trust them.

After all I don't want just ANYONE knowing of my deepest fantasies, so though it sounds ideal in paper to just be open up front.  I also think it increases the chances of scaring a woman a way.


I'm more a fan of the method of having the woman fall in love with you first, since my only interest is FMG and muscular women that wouldn't be forced on her, it's not a big deal and I'm not into other things anyway.  I find for me they just say "Who cares, I love you for who you are."

I can live without a muscular or FMG enjoying wife.  However, I'd much rather prefer to just live with whoever that special someone will be, as long as she lets me draw and do my FM thing.

Thats pretty tough...hmm...maybe there should be a chance you two really open up...and get your emotions out there.

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