Not all women look like men.  Cindy Phillips, Gina Davis, Heather Armbrust, Jodi Miller, Britt Miller, Lindsay Mullinazzi.

None of those women would -ever- be considered men.  It's very narrow minded to think that only men should have muscles, but if that were true how would women even be able to move?  They cannot move on fat alone.

There are SOME bodybuilders who look like men, like Renee Tonee or Maria Calo, but those are ones who just care about getting more and more size.  You still wouldn't be gay being with them as they are considered women.

It's when you're thinking about male bodybuilders or males, and you're thinking about being with a male that makes you gay.  If you're constantly fantasizing about dudes instead of muscular women, then you are gay.  But if you're thinking about really big muscular WOMEN who have thighs, breasts, and lacks a male organ down below.  Then you are very NOT gay.

I think what Seldom was trying to say was that because of the bible's (or perhaps more accurately, Christianity's) prohibitions against homosexuality, men's attraction to women who so clearly violate gender standards must be no different from homosexuals.  Women are not supposed to be muscular, hence any man who wants that would in all likelihood be just as comfortable with a man.

Because homosexuality is a choice after all 

It's not about muscles, it's about penises and vaginas.