I don't even go to the gym no more, not after the mess I saw

I turned my extra room in my apartment into a gym.
There's no shame in that, working out @ home can be just as rewarding, if not superior in certain aspects to going to a gym. You have more control over the environment, and w/o distractions from others while focusing on your lifts.

However, it only works best if you have the discipline and drive to follow through on your w/o routines from week to week. Some ppl can, others seem to need the socialization and camaraderie to keep up their motivation to w/o regularly and with consistency.
