[Michael Pouliot]

but there's a difference between 'normal' and 'immoral', 'deviant', or 'freaky', and I fear that this has crossed-over into that frightening territory.

Such distinguishments are constructs of the morality police.  If I find someone's tastes unusual, that is relative to my tastes, not relative to some preconceived notion dictated by moral busybodies.

If you're married and your concern is that you're unable to share this with your wife, that's an issue you'll need to work out if you want to continue being involved with your FBB interests.  Leading a private life is a recipe for disaster.  The best approach would be to open up and tell her.  It gets a bit more complicated if your desires are causing you to downgrade how attractive you find your wife.  Personally, I don't find it too difficult to separate the feelings I have for my wife with my own personal fantasies.  However, I have no motivation to attempt to make my fantasies into reality, as that would severely impact my marriage.

[cpbell0033944]

Nope, single, and, as I explained, living with my parents.

[Fett]

Mate, I'm pretty much in the same situation as yourself. "Fett" is kind of my 'secret identity' in some ways. No one knows I draw and so forth.

But here's the thing – it's not morally wrong. It's just embarrassing. It's like a friend of mine who doesn't want to go swimming because he's a bit fat. It's just embarrassing. You'd get a few barbs about it. Some people might not 'get it' and think you're gay – but there's no moral imperative about it. Rape, child molestation, and what not are sexual crimes, not sexual fetishes. It's like people into S&M – mainstream society finds it 'freaky' and 'odd' but if it's between consenual adults and kept private, people generally don't care.

If you're worried about being found out – just remember. Don't make it a big deal and no one else will either. And y'know what – you don't. I have a similar taste for them like you – I "bloody well care" about their femininity. While there is a certain eroticism to just crazy big for me, it's the allure of the freak, and not at all, the kind of woman who, if I saw in person, I'd want to spend time with. For me, when I look at the top Olympia comepetitors, I find maybe one competetitor actually attractive. Remember – you're attracted to muscle women and that last part is important, and if you're mature and honest about, and your friends and family care for you, it won't be a big deal at all.

That said, I don't tell anyone because it's just not their business. If they found out, I'd just carry on as normal because it's not a big deal.

Don't cut off a part of what makes you happy just because you're afraid someone somewhere might not like it. They don't have to. It's about you, my man. 🙂

[cpbell0033944]

Could it have been better timed?
Just as I started pulling out of my blue funk and decided that things weren't so bad after all, I found this:

http://www.ocregister.com/ocregister/news/local/article_1628651.php

and my spirits soared.
Women CAN look good and be buff.
Thanks for your support, guys, looks like you won't be seeing the back of me just yet! ;D

[cpbell0033944]

Could it have been better timed?
Just as I started pulling out of my blue funk and decided that things weren't so bad after all, I found this:

http://www.ocregister.com/ocregister/news/local/article_1628651.php

and my spirits soared.
Women CAN look good and be buff.
Thanks for your support, guys, looks like you won't be seeing the back of me just yet! ;D

P.S. The brainless comments helped reinforce my conviction as well.

[TC2]

Well I was going to add more but it looks like this has been resolved, so nothing more to add anymore!

[AlexG]

Well I was going to add more but it looks like this has been resolved, so nothing more to add anymore!

Then if that's the case should I lock the thread and have it sealed with an uberbuffed, uberbabe's kiss?  ;D

“I like a good story well told. That is the reason I am sometimes forced to tell them myself.”
~ Mark Twain / Samuel Clemens (1907)

[cpbell0033944]

Then if that's the case should I lock the thread and have it sealed with an uberbuffed, uberbabe's kiss?  ;D

Pretty please! ;D 8)

[SammiChung]

I would say that given the choice I would undoubtedly prefer to gaze upon real feamle bodybuilders then steroid filled monstrosities, it is one of the reasons I feel comfortable being here, because there are people here who have varied tastes and can comment well without always sounding down or angry. But lets put this into a little perspective, women by definition have breasts..have utereus, and other things that 'sexually' define them as female..we know however that a long time ago when women worked in the fields, raised families, helped there men do what needed to be done they weren't wimps…not by a long shot..pare away the fat they built up birthing children and you will find a hard body, sure they are not gigantic, that is what fantasy is for…but they were muscular..look at some of the renissance paitings you will see 'full figured' ladies but notice they have some muscle…not hard ripped like a FBB but they had some muscle. Anyway in closing don't let society bully you into believing women are not sexy muscled…afterall the only thing that seperates the sexes is there sexual characterisitcs and a few hormone and plumbing differences..the human body is meant to be used..some build muscle others are lucky enough to be…fit naturally and others change there form in ways science has yet to fully grasp (usually not in a good way..) so take it from me being an admirer of female muscle myself and some of the finer nuiances of the fetish, I can say I am comfortable with me and in the end that is really what matters. Love and Peace Sammi

[Grandmaster]

Then if that's the case should I lock the thread and have it sealed with an uberbuffed, uberbabe's kiss?  ;D

Pretty please! ;D 8)

It's bound to come up again, if you keep looking for validation in the "outside world".

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