[Chuck]

And as always, Magnus Knight swoops in to deliver the final word on a subject before the case is closed. lol

[hadassa]

Well, I hope its okay to reply to this. I am a girl, but I don't like muscle growth really. ^_^;;;; It has to do with that whole not being feminine thing you were talking about. I feel like it ruins their beautiful figures.

But I do love watching them being violent and destructive. Its very sexy.

Its also a relief to me to read some other girls who like similar things to me. I've always felt like a freak for having my weird fetish, especially since Wikipedia says that its predominantly a fetish found in males.

And it has always confused me. I prefer watching girls grow, I think. (I haven't really watched much guys do it, so I am not sure.) And yet I am perfectly straight outside of that.

I used to wonder for awhile if I liked watching the girls grow and it aroused me because I wanted to be them, but I finally figured out that wasn't it. (I'm sorry. I know you'd prefer it if I did.) I actually have an obsession with making friends with people who are a lot taller than me. I don't know, it just makes me feel good to be the smallest person I know. So I know I don't desire to be this giant destructive woman.

So I guess its some sort of attraction I have to them. I don't know if that makes me bisexual (that has sort of confused me.) I told my boyfriend about my fetish actually and he was a little worried that I was bisexual and that depressed me.

(Oh and hi, I am new, this is my first post. XD)

[MaxxC]

Welcome hadassa.

I don't think it's not really an attraction of the same gender kind per se, just an attraction of an action or a thing (ie: People who are freakishly larger than you). That doesn't necessarily make you bisexual. Only you determine that in your lifestyle in my opinion.

And it has always confused me. I prefer watching girls grow, I think. (I haven't really watched much guys do it, so I am not sure.) And yet I am perfectly straight outside of that.

Well, youtube.com is probably the best place to find clips of guys growing if you're wondering. Search something like "muscle growth" or "giant" or something.

I actually have an obsession with making friends with people who are a lot taller than me. I don't know, it just makes me feel good to be the smallest person I know. So I know I don't desire to be this giant destructive woman.

That's interesting because if you made a friend who's that large, that's a pretty powerful friend you'd be making. But also a dangerous one.  XD

[TC2]

All right, here's from a guy whose done research on the subject by speaking to actual women.

There are 3 different types of women that will enjoy FMG, the most predominant ones are the lesbians and the bisexuals.  A small minority of them will be straight women and they will not be gay in the slightest.

Lesbians and Bisexuals will often envision themselves transforming and think about how sexually gratifying it would be.

Where as straight women will think it's a display of feminine power, it looks cool, it's very attractive, and sometimes it speaks out to the inner warrior in them.

Just because a woman thinks about other women growing muscles doesn't make them gay or bisexual, the only way that would happen is if the woman is fantasizing herself having sex with the growing woman.  Kissing her, fondling her, having sex with her, that would officially make you bi sexual.

Imagining her growing muscles or ripping out of her clothes will not make you gay.

I find it ironic that Magnus Knight says "Why ask why" when at his very own yahoo group he asked why.

There are levels of depth that go into the interest of FMG, some women find that it has a very strong sex appeal because it makes them feel sexy and powerful, while for those of a different orientation are in it more for the sexual satisfaction and relations.

How do I know all this?  Well obviously I've talked to a huge majority of them, those are the most common generalizations that appear when it goes to this particular topic.  Sometimes it's something just as simple as "It looks cool!"  and sometimes it's more complex like "My boyfriend used to beat me up, so I got bigger, that way he couldn't beat me up anymore."

The main thing I would like to reassure the women is that thinking about other women growing muscles or getting big does not make you a lesbian.  Thinking about having sex with them, does.

[Lu]

Dunno collector. Thinking about having sex with a woman doesn't make you a lesbian. That's like saying to a bloke if you've ever thought about sex with a guy you're gay.
I think it's more a firm statement to say you are attracted to a woman sexually if you become aroused when thinking about having sex with another woman, or fantasize about sex with another woman when you're.. in that kind of mood.

I just mean you can think about a sexual act and not like it- your statement seemed too general.

[TC2]

Thanks for making it more specific, that's what I was trying to go for but it didn't seem to come out right.

[Chuck]

So I guess its some sort of attraction I have to them. I don't know if that makes me bisexual (that has sort of confused me.) I told my boyfriend about my fetish actually and he was a little worried that I was bisexual and that depressed me.

(Oh and hi, I am new, this is my first post. XD)

Welcome to the forums and don't feel bad, hadassa. People by and large shouldn't feel depressed about things like giant women and really liking them going on destructive rampages.

If anything, I suppose I started this entire thread because, like you said, wikipedia said it's a largely male dominated thing. I wanted to see what drew women to it.

Naturally, nothing tops SyberStyk's comment (sorry if I'm misquoting here) that it just "makes the blood flow south."

Is there any better reason than that  :D? So welcome!

[weirdwolfca]

I told my boyfriend about my fetish actually and he was a little worried that I was bisexual and that depressed me.

… Let me get this straight. You told your boyfriend you might be bisexual… and he was worried about it?! I'm gonna quote George from Sienfeld on this one: "Are you crazy?! This is like discovering Plutonium…by accident!" If my girl sat me down and said she had something important to say, and it turned out she might be bisexual, I wouldn't tell her I was worried. I would be doing everything humanly possible from jumping in the air (doing a quick freeze frame) and then dance around for 4o minutes doing the happy dance.

Welcome to this world Hadassa, and please ignore the signs that say don't feed the WeirdWolf.  ;D

[hadassa]

… Let me get this straight. You told your boyfriend you might be bisexual… and he was worried about it?! I'm gonna quote George from Sienfeld on this one: "Are you crazy?! This is like discovering Plutonium…by accident!" If my girl sat me down and said she had something important to say, and it turned out she might be bisexual, I wouldn't tell her I was worried. I would be doing everything humanly possible from jumping in the air (doing a quick freeze frame) and then dance around for 4o minutes doing the happy dance.

Welcome to this world Hadassa, and please ignore the signs that say don't feed the WeirdWolf.  ;D

Haha. I know a lot of guys are like you or so I have heard.

But not my boyfriend. He is very "moral" and "uptight" about sexual stuff (especially sexual orientation), which is why I found it weird that he was okay with my fetish, but was worried that I might be bisexual. He only disliked that part.

[Chuck]

Haha. I know a lot of guys are like you or so I have heard.

But not my boyfriend. He is very "moral" and "uptight" about sexual stuff (especially sexual orientation), which is why I found it weird that he was okay with my fetish, but was worried that I might be bisexual. He only disliked that part.

Ah, okey dokey. It's awesome that he's okay with it! *thumbs up* And there's nothing wrong with being moral and uptight about sexual stuff until it starts interfering with an otherwise healthy sexual relationship. Paraphrasing someone famous, "Don't sweat the sex stuff."  😀

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