[Rick]

I think i could compare to him……

We are bothe men, have hair, eyes…. i kick ass, he kicks ass, hmmm im going out on one here arent i….

i'll go sit in the corner and be quiet…

[celc5]

supplements like protein powder, creatine, and arginine are safe alternatives to to steroids.  Women see awesome results from these supplements even when taken in small doses.  Do your research and learn about supplements… then adjust as necessary b/c everyone sees different results with different doses, different timing (ie morning vs. preworkout or on an empty or full stomach), and with different name brands

As far as women worrying about meating our fantasies, that is a female issue.  Men don't expect all girls to be muscular like our cartoons and stories.  I'd bet that guys who fantasize about girls in playboy don't expect their girlfriends to turn into supermodels either.

Most guys, including myself, could care less if a girl fantasizes about Batman, Arnold Schwartzeneger, or a sumo wrestler.  Strbrry, I hope that you are working out and trying to put on muscle b/c u want to do it for yourself.  It's too much hard work if you're doing it to try to fullfill someone's fantasy.

[Hunter S Creek]

One thing some of you have said is the "fantasy" vs "reality" aspect. This is what drives many women mad because here you are, fantasizing about what you know cannot exist, and no woman could ever hope to achieve what cannot exist…read: she will always think you think she's sub-par in one or more ways.

I suppose the key is that many of us (male and female) who occasionally fantasize about characters with unrealistic bodies know that we are fantasizing and only do it as an entertaiing diversion.

The reality is that in this "off-the-rack" world I am sure that most of us routinely find other people on a daily basis to whom we are attracted for one reason or another.  I love the diversity of women, however, all things being equal, I do have some preferences.  The thing is — all of us are "sub-par" for one reason or another — and — thank God — all things are never equal.

Would I really expect or even want someone to meet my "SheGrew" or other fantasies on a permanent, daily basis? — Of course not. 
Do I suspect that women ever find that I match-up to their fantasy guy? — Of course not.  Does it bother me? — Of course not.
I really, really enjoy lobster but do not eat it every day.  But, on those days that I am not eating it, I do not enjoy whatever else I am eating less because it is not lobster.  Likewise the pizza that I had last night should not feel inadequate because it was not lobster.  Ironically, human nature being what it is; if for some reason I could have lobster every day, I would probably begin to think of something else as my favorite food.

I do not mind at all when I am found to be attractive by someone who is grounded in reality but has occasional fanatasies that I do not match.  And, to be fair, I do not employ a double-standard — that is — I certainly would not want anyone whom I have ever dated to feel inadequate or "sub-par" because they did not match my fantasy.

It is unfortunate that so many males and females, especially in heavily commercialized western societies, seem to allow themselves to feel inadequate or "sub-par" unless they meet some artificial, and sometimes unrealistic, standard(s).  The reality is — they can never meet all or even some of them and they should not try.

Just my 2 Pfennigs worth
Tschuss!
Hunter

[Anonymous]

Hunter,

Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut wie dein Englisch, aber ich muss versuchen. 🙂

Deine Antwort ist perfekt; du beschreibst das Thema gut. Ich verstehe dich sehr viel…nicht mehr kann ich ueber sie sagen.  😉

[celc5]

Hunter, I totally agree with you.   I think you made the same point that I was trying make in a much more articulate and well thought out manner… especially your last paragraph.

…then again, you are the writer and maybe some day a chick will have a fantasy about a regular guy who likes to write growth stories  🙂

Salute`

celc5

[Strickalator]

🙂

well truth be told…being healthy is far more important than being buff…and i agree with strawberry…you should not take anabolic steriods….

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