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Michael Pouliot
ParticipantWhat's more, my wife isn't exactly what you would call muscular, but I love her as much as if she were. To me, the world of FMG and muscular women altogether is my private world. I can vicariously enjoy their presence, stories, and pictures, and still LOVE my wife. So it's like having my cake and eating it too. Besides, I wanted to tell her, but even she at one point said on her own that women should NOT be muscular. That pretty much shut me up about ever telling her.
My wife has no issue with the fact that I find body types other than hers more attractive. I think that's simply an honest look at reality. You don't marry a person because they match your optimal physical appearance level. If they do, that's a nice bonus, but it's almost always not the case. And both parties should be well aware of something that I think is really obvious. Of course, there should be a level of physical attraction between married people, and it's best if its a high level. But there should be no misconception that it's of the highest level.
Being married has not neutered me of the desire to be physically intimate with other women, and it hasn't neutered my wife of the desire to be physically intimate with other men. There are clearly many reasons to keep those desires in check. But that doesn't mean a couple can't be open about those desires. Of course though, there's a difference between being open about it (i.e. both parties are aware of the other party's optimal physical body types) and continually injecting that factoid into your lives. Nobody wants to be constantly reminded that they aren't their partner's peak of attractiveness, even if its true. Because even though it is true, it is unlikely that its particularly relevant to the overall health of the relationship.
December 28, 2007 at 7:10 pm in reply to: Femuscle stories — ‘story’ versus ‘extended scene’. #65187ParticipantNice thread. I'd like to touch on two points:
1) 'Story' vs. 'Extended Scene'
This is clearly a personal preference. My preference is for structure, but that's because I have a specific goal. My preferred stories include the growth of multiple characters through multiple stages. This allows for both a diversity of experience and a story that allows characters to obtain an ever increasing amount of power, parceled out in pieces. To do this coherently, you need a structure which allows for those multiple events to be bound. An extended scene doesn't allow for that.2) Endings
Endings are hard. In all writing. It's not specific to fetish writing. Professional writers have an incentive to creating an ending, since they're getting paid for a finished product. But it appears to me that most writers are much more comfortable writing the story then concluding it. And this really shouldn't be surprising. The joy of writing is in the creation of events. Resolution means you're bringing your writing experience to an end, and who wants that?I almost never critique fetish stories. I don't understand the point of it. I like stories that satisfy my particular wants. So why should I be critical if someone generates a story that doesn't line up with my desires? As for "good writing", how am I to critique that? Should I use this forum as a platform for educating people how to "write better"? I hardly think I'm qualified to attempt that.
I find writing to be very difficult. My own attempt took me a number of years to complete. I have other ideas partially plotted, but I have difficultly being creative enough to construct a plot that I find satisfactory. Which is another reason why I'm extremely hesitant to criticize anyone else's writing. I know how hard in can be, and in this little fetish corner of my Universe, I appreciate anyone who makes an attempt, and I simply privately filter out the stories that I personally find unappealing.
November 14, 2007 at 12:18 am in reply to: How much are you willing to pay for your fetishism? #63262ParticipantI'm willing to pay if the value is there. Sites like FemFlex and HerBiceps and MuscleAngels have the best value because of both the quantity and breadth of content. I consider subscriptions to individual FBB sites to be far too expensive as they don't provide the same value relative to the aforementioned. However, I'm sure some FBB sites have content that is very exclusive, and if you're a big enough fan, the value is there.
As for DVD's, the value is there as well if you're a big enough fan of the FBB in question.
I've subscribed to both FemFlex and Melissa Dettwiller's sites in the past, and both were worth it. I don't anymore because I'm married now and putting a monthly fetish expense on our budget just doesn't seem reasonable.
Oh, and DC Letcher's stuff was always well worth it.
ParticipantA new (NSFW) video of Ms. Bickels has just surfaced. It's probably the greatest pec-flex video ever (sorry Melissa!).
ParticipantA New BEST THING EVER.
Yes, that tops The Snuke.
ParticipantI can't tell because I'm too cheap to access the full site, but it appears that in the new spread at Muscle Angels, Ms. Miller has significantly beefed up.
And wow oh wow oh wow…here's the teaser photo.
ParticipantA great (but long) in-depth report on his whole ordeal can be found here (pdf).
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