[osquip]

Since we are on the topic of girlfriends/boyfriends and FMG fantasies –

How many of us have ever shared this fantasy with that special someone? (boyfriend or girlfriend, muscular or not)

I personally have shared this with a few girlfriends. Each was a somewhat fit woman, but not really bodybuilder muscle level. Interestingly, the ones I chose to share this with got into the fantasy as well. There was mutual enjoyment of the various stories, and increased dedication to the gym for both of us. It even led to occassional role-playing 😀

Personally, I found this to be on level with sharing personal turn-ons with a girlfriend (with a good dose of honesty to boot). The biggest concern I have had with this is making sure my partner understands that the fantasy is not how I judge her. I try to emphasize that I am not making a physical comparison or critique of her to a ‘fantasy girl’.

[Anonymous]

PUG: “get a little evolution going in the clan with kids that are (hopefully) smarter, faster, stronger, and better looking than either me *or* her”

Well, man, not to disappoint you, but that probably won’t work. If two very smart people have a kid, their child will probably have a lower IQ than either of them, and if two very dumb people have a kid, their child will probably have an IQ higher than either of them. It’s called “regression towards the mean” which means that your child will be more towards the average than you and your spouse. So, when you say: “Course, since the number of people that score better than myself on IQ tests is fairly small, and the number of people that are better looking fairly large, I’ll be perfectly happy to compromise…” what will probably happen is that your child will be dumber than you and uglier than your attractive wife. In that way, it WILL be a compromise, assuming your wife tests considerably lower on IQ scores. That way, she will have a kid smarter than she is, and you will have a kid more attractive than you are. 🙂

DRAVEN: “When Im not the best, Im rather dissapointed. *Being a perfectionist sucks sometimes.* Nobody likes to lose, right?” I used to be that way, and I ended up being miserable most of the time, not because I suck, but because being the absolute best at absolutely everything is impossible. I realized that I should learn to let things go. I’m not saying that you’re all super-competitive (although you may be), just to drop things where it really doesn’t matter if you win or lose. If you play professional football and everyone’s counting on you and you miss a field goal kick that would, say, win the game for your team, then yeah, you can be disappointed. Or if you and some buddies are betting on a bowling game, and you bowled a really crappy game, then yeah, you can be disappointed. But if you’re just hanging out and playing games, no need to be the winner 😀

“But Im frequently dissapointed when I talk to them and find that theyre shallow and *sometimes* illiterate.” Not all the pretty girls are like that, and you’ll find it less frequently out in the real world…I know I have at least. Hope that gives you some consolation 🙂

“Just when you think you have her beat, she grows out of her clothes and proceeds to fudge you up.” Hehehehe 😀

OSQUIP: “Interestingly, the ones I chose to share this with got into the fantasy as well.” You know, they could have secretly wanted to be bigger, but were afraid of how people would react. Sharing your fantasy with them could be the perfect way to get them to open up and really be themselves 🙂 Not to mention that you get benefits from it, as you’ve mentioned.

“The biggest concern I have had with this is making sure my partner understands that the fantasy is not how I judge her. I try to emphasize that I am not making a physical comparison or critique of her to a ‘fantasy girl’.” It’s good that you are concerned with that. At the same time, you have to let her know why you’re with HER and not chasing your fantasy girl. That way, if you ever DO encounter a woman who looks like your fantasy girl, your girlfriend (or wife) will feel comfortable and unthreatened, knowing that you are with her for such and such reasons and won’t leave her just because you find a super-buff lady at the local Starbucks.

[iceman75]

This is a very good question that has been asked many times, but here goes, I remember being attracted to muscular and strong women back when I was about 11 or 12, I always thought it would be so cool if Playboy did an issue with big muscular women, they sort of did in 1994 or so, but the biggest woman on there would probably be considered a fitness model today. I don’t generally like tall women, as it were, but super strong and super muscular, maybe even a little short, because it makes the fact that they are so strong and muscular stick out even further. I have always dreamed of being lifted, because of my advanced weight, 300+ pounds, that has never happened, but a guy can always hope, thats why I enjoy writing stories so much, its bringing every element of my personal fantasies to life in my own way.

[Lingster]

This is a great thread. Thanks for kicking it off, Strawberry Riddick.

[ratlaf]

As far as sharing this fantasy with girlfriends I’ve had mixed results ranging from acceptance to indifference. Of course emphasizing that I’m not making a physical comparison between her and the fantasy women we’ve created. None of them really got into the fantasy but none of them were totally disgusted with it either, who knows what’ll happen in the future…

[lfan]

Cannot agree more, Lingster! Great thread!!

Now that I’ve read all the posts, I’ll throw in my $.02 as I think I fall into a different camp than most here. While it seems many here love the bulging biceps and/or giantess stuff, my tastes are more driven lookswise to the fitness model / swimsuit model figures — fit and toned — but with superhuman power!

Like Masschine (I think) mentioned, the whole power thing is key — and in my mind THE KEY in my whole fascination. I guess its just an extension of the whole comic book vision of a ‘superheroine’. I just love the conflicting idea of it all though — here is a beautiful, sexy-as-hell girl with the body of a supermodel and, by the way, she can shrug off a nuclear explosion and can juggle a fleet of Escalades without breaking a sweat!

I know I’m not alone in this ‘interest group’ but seems like its majorly in the minority over here at Transvigor/SheGrew (which I love and frequent BTW). I dunno, maybe I’m too mainstream or was subliminally programmed watching WW and the Bionic Woamn growing up…..

LF

http://www.superwomenmania.com

This is a great thread. Thanks for kicking it off, Strawberry Riddick.

[Trent Harlow]

Personally, I think muscle looks good on a woman. But I feel there is such a thing as too much muscle. I’m more into a build like Trina Gillis has now. Good size and definiton, but not over-doing it. I got into FMG on accident. I was reading my friends Fantastic Four (when She-Hulk was part of the team), specifically the issue where the nude photos were taken of her and she hulked-out in the adult mag editor’s office. You didn’t actually see the growth but I found it and her character very cool. So I started reading She-Hulk religiously. And when I moved out of my parents house after joining the Air Force and got my own computer I discovered, DTV, Yahoo Groups and LH-Art and it just took off from there. Another reason would be because I’m 6’5" and it’s hard to find taller woman. Although most female bodybuilders aren’t really tall, most FMG characters are. I’ve never dated a woman taller than me (my wife’s the tallest at 5’8"), and I’ve always wondered what it would be like to look up at my significant other. I’m not really into the submissive aspect of it, just a pretty girl with a nice peak or a great six-pack.

And for some reason I think a girl ripping through her clothes is really really hot.

[Kitsunekun]

When I was in puberty ( mid 90’s), I remember that I loved Supergirl for her sweetness and strength (I don’t know if that triggered some kind of link between those two conceptions)

Then it came 1999, the age when computer-cafes were expanding in this small country, and watching webpages of superheroines, I watched Caitlin Fairchild, drawn by Scott Campbell. Then some guys wrote in their pages "She is as muscular as Jodi Miller". I mdidn’t knew her, but then I just tipped her name in Altavista (the fashion seeker of that ages) until I found her pictures. I loved the addrenaline rush that just look at them made me feel. I wanted for more, it was like I needed it, so I looked at the links of other female bodybuilders and I loved the feelings I had watching at their pictures.

In conclussion, I don’t know, but I can theorize about it

[SheMuscleLover]

I used to hide my taste for amazonian women some because of reactions I’d get from some people. "Oh you’re a closet homosexual." Or some such nonsense but ever since high school I’d been a person who was following a different path so basically I said ‘fuck it’ when it came to others opinions, if they couldn’t understand my fascination then they were just hopeless.

I love the confidence and assertiveness it exemplifies. I’m no fan of shrinking violets or damsels in distress.

I love the additional curves it gives the body. Straightlines are for architecture. I’d loved big breasts for quite a while, still do but they aren’t as important as a curvy leg or arm, broad shoulders or sloping traps. There is something animalisitc or primal to that look of power. And with a certain amount of greed, the bigger the better. I’ve never seen a woman I thought was too big unless her bodyfat ratio was more than a little high.

And power is another thing with my fascination. The idea or visual of a woman lifting some terrific poundage is thrilling.

And the dedication and discipline it takes, something I find myself lacking. Sure I try to get to the gym and workout myself. But the day in day out workoutss and most of all dieting take a ton of discipline.

I was about to give my reasons for loving musclebabes…

But our good friend Masschine must’ve read my mind, ’cause I was gonna say exactly what he already did.

[Richard]

I think with me it’s just about being a confident powerful person. Weather that’s physically or mentally. My wife is a lawyer and one of the smartest people I’ve ever met, and althou she’s not in the least way physically intimidating her confidence and ability to control literally any situation is one hell of a turn on for me.

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