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anyways i like her as she is but i would of course be happier when she lost weight and gained muscle…however its not about how i feel about her body that matters…its how she feels..and she has told me she hurts alot and wants to change it…i totally support her.

Sounds like a nice match. Its nice to have someone to share training and diet with. They can be a source of support, inspiration, or even just someone to rant to and tell them how sick you are of boiled chicken breast (as you eat what must be your millionth piece of chicken!)

Having definite goals helps too – the surgery, the acadamy, etc. The fact that you are passionate about muscle also should be a nice extra perk! Good luck – I hope it works out!

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As for high-heels, I stay away from them unless I’m in a dress

– Yeah, me too. 🙂

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I like the muscularity on the second one, and the posing and face on the third. The second one is well executed, but I have a problem in general with armor that does not protect the groin area

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I love to see them, in true (not morphs) before and after… specialy when a delicate woman turns herself into a muscle godess, like Rebekka Armstrong or Heather Lee.

Although I would not exactly call her dainty to begin with, Gina Davis has some great pictures of herself over the past few years. You can see how her training has really paid off – especially the arms!

http://www.ginadavis.us/

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There’s a similar style story called "A new world order" by Kowalski (I think) on the BEarchive that I like for the same reasons – anybody that like Marknew would probably like it, though it goes a bit far for my taste (But then, so doth Mark sometimes – <G>), and journeys through TG towards the end, which does absolutely nothing for me, so I’ll give a squick warning for anyone else that wants to check it out. (Correction – Can’t find it there anymore – I’ve seen it other places – anyone have a link for a different website for people?).

Is this it?

http://www.digital-empire.net/mgs/authors/view.asp?AuthorID=144

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Marknew’s library would top my personal list, with The Spell and Pendant Changes being two of the most memorable.

I also like Nomdreserv’s Balance of Nature and Tennis

http://home.att.net/~nomdreserv/Stories.html

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😀 🙂 🙁 😮 😆 8) 😕 😯 😡 😛 😳 😥 😉 🙄 😈 👿 ➡ 💡 ❓ ❗ 😐

Maybe… 😛

Kiss, you are indeed a man of many emotions.

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Since we are on the topic of girlfriends/boyfriends and FMG fantasies –

How many of us have ever shared this fantasy with that special someone? (boyfriend or girlfriend, muscular or not)

I personally have shared this with a few girlfriends. Each was a somewhat fit woman, but not really bodybuilder muscle level. Interestingly, the ones I chose to share this with got into the fantasy as well. There was mutual enjoyment of the various stories, and increased dedication to the gym for both of us. It even led to occassional role-playing 😀

Personally, I found this to be on level with sharing personal turn-ons with a girlfriend (with a good dose of honesty to boot). The biggest concern I have had with this is making sure my partner understands that the fantasy is not how I judge her. I try to emphasize that I am not making a physical comparison or critique of her to a ‘fantasy girl’.

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Of course that would depend on what your relationship preferences are. What do you look for first in your mate? Looks or personality? How flexible is one willing to be on physical appearance when it comes down to love?

There’s the fantasy and the reality. I enjoy both for what they are.

Well said. I would always put personality, mind, and heart above what a person looks like.

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Now, I think what you were trying to say here (and correct me if I’m wrong, please do 🙂 ) is that men want a soft woman because society tells them that men are hard and thus women should be soft. Is that what you were going for?

Partly. There are always pressures from one’s own gender and the opposite gender.

I feel a lot of guys buy into the idea that women should be soft and men should be hard. Some guys view a woman trying to be a hardbody and putting on muscle means she is trying to be like a man (and that if men find her attractive, that is similar to finding a man attractive).

It also seems that some women accept these ideas as well. Women accept the idea that being hard and muscualr is the same as being masculine. Women will choose to be soft and unmuscular beacuse of pressures from society and concern about how men and other women will view them. (note the use of the term accept – this does not necessairly mean they agree 100% with the idea).

I hope that does not sound too cynical. This is my impression of many who insist muscle is not attractive on women. There are certanly many who feel differently. And I often will hear female bodybuilders and athletes remark on how the feedback they get from fans and admirers is almost always positive. 😀

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I’m not sure how you can think that girly = soft, and yet love muscular women. That’ll be pretty hard to find. I mean, she could have soft skin, but with the stuff you guys draw it’ll be really taut, so it won’t be soft in the sense that she’s a little squishy.

I’m just speaking personally here, but one example that comes to mind where a woman can show both softness and muscle at the same time are fem bodybuilders who are in off season. I really like this look beacuse (1) it showcases both the muscle and the feminine curves of the athlete, (B) it gives me the impression of being more comfortable for the woman (I know she has not been dieting hard for weeks) and (3) it makes her muscles bigger and fuller 😉

If you have never been there, check out Amanda’s blog and compare her more recent pictures to those from Dec/Jan

http://amandasite.blogspot.com/ male) = hard.

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